One Week to Cuba

Cuba with kids

Amazing that we’re only one week away from this trip we’ve been planning for the past year. All of us are super sick and hoping that it passes before we have to get on a plane (even if it is a short flight). Everything is coming together very nicely, and we certainly picked a very exciting time to be there: our visit will coincide with President Obama’s visit, the first time a sitting US president will have visited Cuba in 88 years.

school supplies

 

During our week in Cuba, we’re going to be spending some time at a rural school, where Liam and Quinn will be able to meet some Cuban children their age. The woman who connected us with the school told us they don’t have many supplies, so the boys were very excited to go to the store to buy their new friends pens, pencils, markers, dry erase boards,and lots of art supplies. They’re really looking forward to meeting their new friends.

I have to be honest, I’m not feeling the excitement I thought I’d feel. Part of is is exhaustion and being sick. It’s been way too long since I’ve been out of the country….in these five years something has happened to my self-proclaimed travel fearlessness. As our Cuba trip draws near, i feel a lot of my adventurous bravado is being replaced by fear of being vulnerable with children. This is not the me I remember, the one who could only breathe while traveling, and I do trust that all will come together , but there’s no doubt motherhood changes the adventurer’s landscape and definitions significantly.

Saint Augustine, Florida

Running down the historic St George Street

Before the boys were born, Bill and I lived in Old Town Alexandria, Virginia. The third oldest and probably the largest historic district in the country (per Alexandria’s website anyway). Since our first date was on a history tour in a graveyard, I think it’s safe to say that we are history lovers, and we savored every moment of walking down cobblestone streets, living in an 8 foot wide house (you heard me right, eight feet wide), and telling people George Washington may have/most likely had his wig powdered in my living room. But that’s a story for another day. The meaty bit here is that when we were living in Old Town, we often talked about what life must be like in those even OLDER towns. Someday, we swore, we’d make a pilgrimage to the mecca for history nerds like us, Saint Augustine.


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Having newly moved to Miami and thinking up ways to celebrate Bill’s 40th birthday, all those “somedays” came haunting and the boys and I immediately made plans to check out Historic Saint Augustine, just about five hours north along the Atlantic coast. We made it a surprise for Bill, who after the fifth hour in the car just figured we were going to another of our favorites, Savannah, GA. Much to the boys’ delight, Grandpa Stu and Sassy dog, who were picking up a boat a few hours away, ended up joining us for the adventure.

Suffice, it was love at first sight. The narrow old streets, the eclectic blends of Spanish and British colonial buildings, and the ancient fort that greatest us made instantly overjoyed. And the boys were particularly excited about our accomadations at the Pirate Haus Inn, with its pirate toys and pirate pancakes like icing on the cake. They even wore their jolly roger shorts for the occasion.

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We spent the first day exploring and enjoying the town. We were told that it the town would be uncharacteristically packed as that Saturday was the lighting of the holiday lights around the historic district, so forget about moving the car. And if was packed indeed. Fortunately, Quinlan did his habitual ridiculous early rising, so he and I ventured out in the wee hours to do some tourist-less exploring. The town was abandoned and enchanted at that early hour, and it we had a fun time pretending it really was the 1700s. Well I did anyway; I think Quinlan just enjoyed being able to run down St George St nonstop without being yelled at or corralled.

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Apart from getting absolutely drenched by rain for a few hours, the most salient highlights of the trip was twofold: the gorgeous garden of the Crucial Coffee Cafe (oh my goodness I LOVE this spot and want to recreate every inch of it in my backyard!) and Flagler College. Flagler College was a gamechanger for Bill and I as parents, because up until seeing that place, we always figured we were pretty accepting parents who would let our children make their own decisions. But no longer. They are both now REQUIRED to go to Flagler College. End of discussion. For history nerds like us, that has got to be one of the coolest colleges in the country. They WILL eat their cafeteria food amidst millions of dollars of Tiffany glass if it’s the last thing we do as parents.

Crucial Coffee Company Flagler College

As soon as we got home, the first thing Bill and I did was search out and immediately start Freebasing every bit of history we could find about Flagler and Saint Augustine. And while I still will always love Old Town Alexandria best, the boys and all agreed that it was pretty impressive to spend some time in our nation’s oldest city. And to sleep with the pirates, no less!

 

Traveling to Cuba

Taking kids to Cuba
Taking kids to Cuba
Photo credit: The Travel Channel

I am so excited! We have our first Wonderful World Project international adventure in the works; our first country will be CUBA!

In future, I will give Liam and Quinn a say in where we’re going together on our annual WWP pilgrimage, but this time around I am making an executive decision. This is because a) that’s easiest b) they need to warm up to the whole thing experientially c)I’ve ALWAYS wanted to go to Cuba and d) HELLO, we live in Miami? It’s practically Cuba already (and can’t we see Cuba from here 😉

I’ve started the ball in motion, reaching out to anyone and everyone who has stepped foot there, talking to travel agents, doing research, getting ready. I haven’t even shared with the boys yet, but once the plan fleshes out a bit more, we’ll get started on our Wonderful World Project itinerary.

I don’t think it get’s much better than this. I am SO grateful!

Accidental/On Purpose Beach Babies

Morning Journaling on Beach

We’re finally settled in to our new little house in Miami, and have made a regular habit of visits to the beach. I still pinch myself that the beach is only a few short blocks away, and that I can start every morning there and end every day there if I want to. How many years have I dreamed of a life like that? And to be on the beach with my kids, little beach babies ready to report for duty! While the leaving everything familiar behind is never easy, the boys are digging their new life, their new room, their new town, and are excited to make new friends. Doesn’t hurt that we started the whole adventure with a birthday and Halloween, so celebrations and treats are instant associations.

Morning Journaling on Beach
I’ve held off on doing a blog like this for, well, about a zillion years. At least since the invention of the horribly named things, but this is just such a great way to record our wonderful world adventures, and I love the idea of compiling everything into one place for the boys (as much fun as it has been to old school cobble together everything in a zillion notebooks, stray pieces of paper, random folders, cell phones, etc.) I love that this can follow us wherever we go, and will create something iterative and growing as the boys grow. So here goes!

And just in case anyone would like one, here is a moment of zen:

A moment of zen, Surfside Fl 2015 from Jessica Abegg on Vimeo.

Wonderful World